How To Get the Guy Podcast

So this wasn’t the video we’d planned to release this week . . .  But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn’t wait to talk about it. The video this week is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.   Your coach,   Matthew x   P.S. Which revelation surprised you the most? I look forward to reading your thoughts as we continue this discussion

In this brand new episode, I sit down with my wife Audrey to talk about why people fear commitment and whether people are less inclined towards marriage in 2024. With the prevalence of dating apps it can feel like we have more options than ever, but people feel it's even more difficult to find their ideal partner. We discuss what has changed in modern dating, reasons for optimism when it comes to commitment, how you can influence someone's view on what commitment means, and how to improve your communication to have a healthy relationship. ►► Get Commitment Without Games or

Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . . But how can you find the people who are actually ready for commitment, and increase the odds of them wanting it with YOU? The truth is, there are actually people who—like you—are working on themselves and looking for a true relationship. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how to avoid the time-wasters and game-players . . . and I’ll also reveal the #1 trait that makes someone want to get serious. Be sure to listen to the whole thing

You can set your watch to it. They flake or break up with you . . . you spend weeks — in fact, months — hurting and getting over them, and just as you realize you no longer think about them all the time and begin to feel happy again, you get the text.   “Hey, how you doing?”   Does this sound familiar? I suspect it does . . .   So what is this phenomenon? Why do they always come back? What does it mean? And more importantly, what do you SAY when they do?   In today’s

Want to find love in 2024? Now is the time when everyone is making New Year’s resolutions. It’s fun and I love that feeling of optimism before January begins. But we also know how hard it is to break old habits and patterns—and end up feeling a sense of failure and frustration if we don’t reach our goals . . . In today’s new video, I share with you the #1 resolution you should focus on this year to move toward a successful love life. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them? Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s episode) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you. Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs. We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for