https://matthewhussey.com/blog/dont-get-into-another-relationship-before-you-watch-this/ Have The Love Life You Want Sun, 21 Feb 2021 13:46:46 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 https://matthewhussey.com/blog/dont-get-into-another-relationship-before-you-watch-this/#comment-1101476 Sun, 21 Feb 2021 13:46:46 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24792#comment-1101476 Thank you for posting this because I, too, am sick of hearing people tell me this. I can agree that many of the people telling me this were unhappy before being in their relationships or that I’ve never been around them outside of them being in a relationship. And I like the simplicity and the truth that there are different levels of happiness just like there are different levels of sadness. We don’t have to be depressingly sad – we can just be a little sad. We don’t have to be exponentially happy – we can just be happy enough. It was so important for me to hear that. Thank you for breaking it down.

]]> https://matthewhussey.com/blog/dont-get-into-another-relationship-before-you-watch-this/#comment-1101466 Sun, 21 Feb 2021 12:23:08 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24792#comment-1101466 Love your advices,they’re the best of the best.Thank you.

]]> https://matthewhussey.com/blog/dont-get-into-another-relationship-before-you-watch-this/#comment-1101425 Sun, 21 Feb 2021 05:54:03 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24792#comment-1101425 I love this video. Recently I heard someone saying something like “You have to love yourself; you have to be happy before you find someone,” and you know it did make me think that it is not just a one day decision and you cannot just be happy all the time. It is not possible. Life is much more complicated. As for me I decided to take time and stop blaming myself for things that I have not achieved yet. I noticed that I am going though a step by step change and a slow recovery. I started trying things that I have never thought I could do, such as painting and making videos, for example. I decided that I will start listening to myself and do things that make me excited. My next step will be learning a new language and starting my own project which I hope can give me new job opportunities in places where I want to be and flexibility with my time.
I decided that from now on I will not waste my time on men that cannot give me what I am looking for. It was my huge mistake and I wasted so much time and efforts but I learned a lesson. Being able to walk away from those men (even if you really like them and they have great qualities and can give you a wonderful time together) feels really good because despite everything they cannot give you the most important thing.
Now even if I feel lonely at times I remind myself about my limited time on this planet. There are lots of things that can fulfill our life and we should take all opportunities to take the most out of being here. And if there is a right person there will be no excuses like “I need time”, “It is the wrong time,” “I have no life as I work a lot” etc. They will just be there for you.
This video resonates with me very much. Thank you.

]]> https://matthewhussey.com/blog/dont-get-into-another-relationship-before-you-watch-this/#comment-1101376 Sat, 20 Feb 2021 20:54:39 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24792#comment-1101376 I love this idea. I have heard of it many times in different places. Andy Puddicombe (who I would love to see Matthew work with) refers to it as the blue sky. And the book “the art of happiness” refers to it as the difference between joy and happiness. But despite all these references it is odd how much people aren’t aware of it. And how much happier it would make people.

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