Comments on: Why Is He A Player And Will He Ever Change?

By: Fionnuala Mckenna

Fionnuala Mckenna — Mon, 13 Sep 2021 20:38:08 +0000

In reply to Aurora. Hi Aurora, it looks like the original video linked to Paul Janka is no longer available but I've updated Matthew's response for you! Enjoy :) ~ Fi MH Team

By: Aurora

Aurora — Sat, 11 Sep 2021 13:43:15 +0000

For some reason, the video and links on this page are not available to view / click Thanks!

By: Sonya Urumova

Sonya Urumova — Tue, 01 May 2018 19:02:48 +0000

Hi Matt, I am meeting perhaps the most famous Player in my country for more than an year, we have a strong connection and I am meeting lots of his needs, but yet he remaines the same Player.
The reason why I love him is that he showed me what an amazing person he is above the game (“behind the scenes”). He invested in me his time, his attention, his efforts (Last year I had a huge renovation at my apartment, he made most of the repairments of my home, we were going together, shopping furniture and etc. and even now our apartments are almost the same) and etc.
I really need to know what else can I do, what am I missing, how to improve myself and my approach, since he pulled out recently.
Thank you in advance!
xxx Sonya

By: MH Support

MH Support — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 16:50:59 +0000

In reply to Charissa Wong.

Hi Charissa, thank you for asking! Fast Track to Mr. Right members have exclusive access to this interview. Fast Track to Mr. Right is Matt’s subscription program that outlines the immediate steps to meeting amazing men and shows how to create attraction on a deep level. Split over six months, the course is like having Matt coach you through the process of getting your love life into shape. It contains over 15 hours of video seminar footage with Matt, along with expert interviews and recorded Q&A discussions. If you’re interested in learning more, or trying the program for free for 14 days, contact our customer support team: support@howtogettheguy.com. Have a wonderful day!- Mars

By: Charissa Wong

Charissa Wong — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 03:32:11 +0000

Is this interview still available? If so, where can we access it?

By: Melissa

Melissa — Wed, 13 Sep 2017 03:03:25 +0000

Women need to be VERY careful about thinking that a player like that guy can change… Players are players because they are NARCISSISTS. Which means they believe they are more important than everyone else in the world. They sleep with lots of women and dump them because they do not care if they hurt someone. They are not capable of feeling sympathy or empathy for other people. They feel nothing when they hurt you. We are not born having love, empathy and sympathy. It is taught to us by our parents. Narcissists, unfortunately, wete NOT taught those things when they were growing up. Something happened to them (bad parenting, trauma) which caused them to SKIP the stage of growth where humans develop the ability to love and have empathy. They CANNOT do it. Plain and simple. Every psychologist in the world will confirm to you that there is NO cure or effective treatment for narcissism. In fact, therapy makes these people WORSE because in therapy / counselling sessions (like marriage or family counselling) narcissists actually learn MORE about their victims and how to manipulate and abuse them more effectively! They even manipulate therapists! They have little or no emotion. And because of that, they are perpetually bored with life. So they try to see how much they can get away with, in order to make their life more thrilling. Narcissists generally use other people as a “source” for what is called “Narcissistic supply”. Supply is anything that gives them what they want/need– being admired, getting attention, being catered to, being recognized, being seen as amazing or perfect. Sometimes the supply they are after is money, expensive posessions, red-carpet living, or great social connections. But they also feel a strong need to control their victims. To think for them, decide for them. They also feel a strong drive to be obeyed, without question. They dont like it when people have individual ideas and opinions. They hate being defied. But more than anything, they hate being called on what they are, or exposed. Doing so is dangerous, they will usually go to all lengths to destroy you for that. If they think their victim is disobeying them, challenging them or disagreeing with them, or if their victim starts to see what they truly are and no longer worships them as “perfect and superior”, they will go into a fit of rage, saying horrible things and sometimes being violent. Finally, if they cannot get their victim back under cok ntrol, they will abandon their victim and replace them with a new “source of supply”. They also have NOTHING inside themselves, they are completely shallow, soulless and empty. So they “feed” from their chosen “source”, stealing away all that person’s evergy and vitality for themselves. Victims of narcissistic abuse often feel drained, numb and worn down. Even reduced in value, like their love for life has disappeared. Sometimes a player (narcissist) will find a lover (source) who is an EXCELLENT source! A source they can suck and feed on, or use, for quite a long time! Maybe she has money, or great connections, or maybe she sees him as perfect and superior… As long as she continues bending over backwards to hand him as much supply as he demands, he will keep sacking it out of her. But eventually…. She will wise up to him and the well is going to run dry. He will then blame HER for everything, drop her like a hot potatoes, and go back to his old ways. But NO, these guys DO NOT change.

By: Katy Williams

Katy Williams — Fri, 25 Aug 2017 14:53:26 +0000

There’s this guy that use to go to the same small church as me and over the years we had many chances to talk yet never did. Sure we’d like each other’s pictures online here and there but that was all. Until he DM me out of the blue one night. I had alway thought he was attractive, so I messaged back, we messaged none stop for a few days. Until I started feeling like I was putting in most of the work in conversations and stopped replying. Out of boredom/curiosity I started talking to him again to see what would happen. Things were going even better than before, we talk every day but I’m starting to get the feeling like he’s playing me. For example, he usually only compliments me when I’m in a bikini or sports bra. Also on two separate occasions he has asked me to hang out and both times he’s the one to back out last minute. I just don’t know what to do, should I walk away or is there something I can do to get him to stop flaking so I can move on or we can move forward.

By: Amrita

Amrita — Wed, 05 Apr 2017 07:51:41 +0000

Hello Mathew ,
This guy is respulsive but I think he was trying to fill an emptiness that he didn’t even know was there . I think he was using sex for the wrong reason which is why it could never fulfill him. Not everyone is going to understand why you needed to understand this guy but I think it was a great idea to interview him considering how you try to help people . I love your videos . Keep up the good work .

By: Mina

Mina — Wed, 30 Dec 2015 03:40:34 +0000

I’m confused, why would you want to coach women on how to get the player type of guy when he’s the kind of scum we should be avoiding, myself I found this person to be oozing slime out of his mouth and extremely fake, boring, and typical American trash. Only One word came to mind for me and that was, AIDS. I personally have never dated a man that even remotely comes close to this type of person. I value myself too much to even want to let anyone like this who has disrespected so many women and used them for his own needs treated them as objects. Why would you advice such an un conscious action? As women it SHOULD MATTER To us how a man has treated his previous partners in his past. This is just shameful, for you to track him down and treat him as some prize that needs to be won.

By: B dal

B dal — Sat, 26 Sep 2015 07:42:14 +0000

Women weren’t doing anything WRONG with that idiot slimeball. They trusted a man who is a psychopath. Harvard should revoke his degree.