Comments on: If You’re Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly, Watch This… https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/ Have The Love Life You Want Wed, 22 Jun 2022 11:55:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: Ed https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-1170041 Wed, 22 Jun 2022 11:55:22 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-1170041 Awesome! Just getting into dating after 20 years, crashed and burned with a nice? lady. I sent her this. I’ll be back T.Y.,Ed

]]> By: Urainah https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-844339 Sun, 02 Dec 2018 15:25:10 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-844339 I’m picturing logic as Spock and emotion as Captain Kirk. Captain Kirk always rushed in, disobeyed rules, usually hit a few red shirts killed in the process. Spock was logical. He took a step back from the situation. That’s what made the Enterprise so successful, is this balance. There are times in life where our emotions will lead, but we still have to apply logic (the practical sense of the situation) in order to make it a success. I tend to be a bit more Captain Kirk, maybe a bit of cynical Dr. Bones thrown in and a heap of Scottie who always seems to figure things out even if “she can’t take any more Captain!” So, I should apply a bit more Spock in the final frontier of dating, explore strange new people, seek out life and live, and boldly go where I haven’t before. Love, live long and prosper. (Yes, I’m a total dork )

]]> By: Gilda Salonia https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-839372 Sun, 28 Oct 2018 17:52:50 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-839372 Love it!! Exactly what i must to lern and feels i’m not a problem is just a tool what I did not i have to fix that problem !!!
O really want to meet u and have a Coaching one by one!
I live in Brazil… haw I do??
Thank u

]]> By: Fhenz https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-824914 Sun, 22 Jul 2018 14:40:01 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-824914 Good evening, I’m fhenz who’s fell in love to the guy whom I just met personally for the first time , we met online in invite travel and been talking and friends for 11 months and then last July 15 2018 we met we had a great time together we just spent our time together for 1 night it was memorable, I can say he liked me , but it just my opinion, the way he treated me that night makes my heart jumped into happiness, he kissed me hugged me and even hold my hands in many ways , and now his back to his country in Texas , and I’m here in Philippines , I cannot get rid him in my mind I guess I’m falling inlove with him and I even texted him what I truly feel towards him , takes long for him to reply or maybe he just busy with his business or with family , when I told him my feelings he said he really appreciate and it means a lot to him for saying those stuff to him , but what he worried about that we live in different place , ( long distance ) and he don’t know what to do bcz he doesn’t know when he can visit me again . we are not in relationship yet ” but I’m inlove with him , I told him that distance means nothing to me bcz he means everything and I can wait him . I’m open to him about my feelings , and what I worried I’m not sure if he feel the same , as I know we had great night together full of happiness and sweetness , I’m worried to makes him step back in me , I’m very patient to him until he reply to me back ,
I want him in my life I guess his my dream guy , but I don’t know what to do can you help me please . Thank you

]]> By: Jorunn S. Roaldsøy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-821412 Mon, 02 Jul 2018 18:22:55 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-821412 You are so right. Suffocating your partner, giving up own things, is not the right way to go. The part in missing each other and also bring new things back, is important. Show that you are still willing to develop yourself. Then your partner can do the same.

]]> By: Vanessa riley https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-821215 Sun, 01 Jul 2018 16:20:51 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-821215 Yes ! Wow your videos have evolved into being more information dense, however soluble- power packed nuggets packed with more stunning help. This is is for me! I am too emotional. I want to go on one of your retreats so bad!
However when all your talent and money comes from “being emotional” it’s way harder for me to control – actually I’d say I was born this way.
At age 48, having been dragged by my hair through a hedge backwards by a much younger man for 2 years, changing my life for him etc Only to have been left a dozen times, for him to return more intense and loving than the time before, throw in a list of Fairytale type lies he created, and that I paid his rent for almost as long as we were together…. I know this sounds insane, any confident woman would have walked away, actually ran, I lived for his love and excitement, his compliments and the dream that we would be together forever as he told me very early in”I’ll never leave you”….. trust me to feel literally suicidal at his absence but otherwise quite sane, I need your retreat !
I believe I was and am totally emotionally addicted to a man who is obviously unable to commit.

Although I recognize this I have no idea how to change.
Thanks…
Vanessa Riley

]]> By: Terri https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-820454 Wed, 27 Jun 2018 22:43:25 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-820454 Hello Matthew,
I am very driven by emotions, which has been both good and bad. I’m going to begin today to make my emotions work for me!
Thank you for the longer video and as always the inspiration!!

Xoxo Terri

]]> By: DarlingAnita https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-820401 Wed, 27 Jun 2018 14:35:52 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-820401 Honestly, I am impressed like seriously…. I am just speechless. You got the answers to my burning questions that I have been searching, thinking, n asking a lot people . Thanks a lot for this wonderful video.

]]> By: Fatima https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-820256 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 18:45:10 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-820256 Hello Matt am very grateful to watch your videos am a big fan of you.
You really help me a lot appreciated

]]> By: Connie https://matthewhussey.com/blog/invest-in-a-relationship-too-quickly/#comment-819947 Sun, 24 Jun 2018 22:28:28 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=21497#comment-819947 Hi Matt,
I’ve ordered a couple of your programs and been both impressed and disappointed in the content, to be perfectly honest. However, in this video I am actually astounded that a person as young as you are has such clarity about the emotional/logical sides of what drives us during the early phases of a relationship. There’s absolutely no BS here, and I thank you for that. You hit the nail right on the head with every segment of this video. You’re wise beyond your years and I thank you for taking this on as your life’s quest to improve the understanding of dating relationships across the globe. I’m single and loving every minute of my dating experience at the moment and you’ve definitely helped me nail down why. It’s not Emotion VS Logic, it is Emotion with Logic as Wingman. Kudos on 1 freakin’ fantastic video! My other favourite it the “Limbo” video. Great work Matt, your Mum is proud, I’m very sure of that.
Cheers from Vancouver, Canada

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