Comments on: Is It Really Possible to Stop Caring About What Others Think?

By: h f

h f — Thu, 21 May 2020 03:01:48 +0000

Not sure if it will work work in current situation right now. After all , places are still closed for covid and also everyone has a stay at home order and therefor, is staying at there homes so there is no socializing going on currently and therefore there is no chance/opportunity to try those skills you are teaching us

By: Nuella Roberts

Nuella Roberts — Mon, 18 May 2020 18:09:29 +0000

This is really good, I’ve learnt quite a lot… Thanks Matthew

By: Sarahkay

Sarahkay — Mon, 18 May 2020 12:32:21 +0000

Thankyou Matthew for sharing your abundant wisdom with us on such a great subject.Its universal. What stuck with me the most is when i realised have much control we put in other people hands.Why do we do these things to ourselves.??‍

By: Khadija FRIHA

Khadija FRIHA — Sun, 17 May 2020 22:22:04 +0000

Hello Matthew ,it’s a great topic ,your reasoning make sense .Thank you

By: Linda Gould

Linda Gould — Sun, 17 May 2020 04:41:58 +0000

Ahhh! Thank you Matt- I am connecting some dots now! I appreciate you!

By: Isabel McConnon

Isabel McConnon — Sun, 17 May 2020 00:33:23 +0000

As you said, there’s no way we can stop caring about what others think. I am going to mention a few words that should be avoid if you really want to make a compliment to someone.

1. You are in good shape and the person looks at you and say: You look tired, or maybe you lost weight.

2. You look fabulous today. There is no need to use the word today. This has happened to me once in a while. I always make my point asking back, Only today?

3. How old are you? I’m 59. The other person says: You look good for your age. There’s no need to add for your age. For God sake, you should say: You look good and that is it. If you want to speak adding a preposition at the end of every sentence, go ahead, but don’t use nonsense words at the end of these statements.

If there are people who don’t care about what others think, then I don’t know one who don’t.

By: Suzannah Rockett

Suzannah Rockett — Sat, 16 May 2020 23:49:19 +0000

I really like your video it makes perfect sense and is easy to understand and digest. The only thing I don’t understand is why you market yourself on women trying to get the guy. You provide so much more than that and at one level it can be a bit off putting and almost prevented me from listening to you in the first place.

I think what you provide is nourishment for the soul for both men and women. It makes me think and that’s a good thing. Not everyone watching you lacks confidence, I don’t. What I do lack is direction and you help with this.

I have the confidence to know I want to change, it’s how that’s the question.

I really enjoy your work, you’re friendly, accessible and have a great sense of energy and warmth but you’re missing a trick Matthew. There’s lots of men out there that would love the support you offer women and it’s a shame you focus on getting the guy, as there’s so many other aspects to happiness.

Thank you for your inspiration

Suzannah x

By: Terry

Terry — Sat, 16 May 2020 22:46:36 +0000

Great topic and video!
I like all people have struggled with saying what I really mean, going after what I really want and letting my light shine for fear of what others will think. And it hurts when the people you care about most disapprove of you in some way.

I’ve always wondered if this fear can be completely quashed.

I think I have a bit more clarity on that question now thanks to your video. : )

By: Jo

Jo — Sat, 16 May 2020 22:13:43 +0000

Awesome video Matthew. Adopting these three principles could change a person’s life around.

By: Ramona Fingersh

Ramona Fingersh — Sat, 16 May 2020 20:02:14 +0000

I just talked to Michael in Chicago the other day. We talked about the retreat. It’s like you read my mind. I love this reminder of how to change energy. Your talks are so good for people to really stay at the top of thier game. Sure wish I had you around everyday my natural great energy would soar. Thanks for all you do. I sure appreciate it.