Comments on: Bad Dates https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/ Have The Love Life You Want Sat, 15 Jun 2019 23:28:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: Jessica https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-849993 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 04:04:49 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-849993 Dear Stephen,

Bad dates are a tough lesson to learn sometimes!

I’m wondering if you could share some insight into what it means when a guy has said twice he will get back to you to make a second date but he hasn’t followed through with it in 5 weeks?

Context: We had a great first date and he continues to text me every day. This individual hasn’t stopped me from talking to other men, but I am fond of this guy, and he seems fond of me too. We all have lives and other commitments, but 5 weeks is a long time to wait for a second date to be rescheduled.

How do I get out of this rut?? I’m sure I’m not the only woman who has been through this!! Too many times I’ve flipped between “being the train leaving the station” and being honest about how uncool this is. S.O.S.!

]]> By: Winnie Matara https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-615737 Wed, 06 Jul 2016 00:04:38 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-615737 I really love watching your videos and reading your articles. You such a great man Mathew I just love your teachings. Thank you very much. Can’t get enough of them

]]> By: Vasiliki https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610609 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 15:22:17 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610609 In reply to Lisa Young.

You are always so enthusiastic and full of positive energy. I love that!!

]]> By: Ashley https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610566 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 12:34:57 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610566 Dear Stephen,
Thank you for this post. Lately I have been going on a fair number of MEH dates and I have found that a lot of it has to do with core values. I would say something like, “I love being active outdoors where I can experience nature!” and he would say, “Really? I much prefer the gym and the city.” Then I would sigh and think to myself, “and another one bites the dust…” I have gotten used to the fact that this is part of the process, but the most disappointing dates are the ones with men who share core values with me, but send out red flags that suggest they are not ready for a relationship. I have a really hard time moving forward with these men even though you and Matthew have talked about how to shift their desires. I tend to give up on them and move on to the next eligible bachelor. Any ideas on how to life hack this response so I don’t view my investment of future time and energy as a waste or should I be moving on to the next?

~ Ashley
MH retreat 12/2015

]]> By: Lisa Young https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610493 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 06:00:39 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610493 In reply to Mona Rangar.

Yes So True Mona, Thank You For Wrapping That Up So Nutritiously!!!

]]> By: Lisa Young https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610491 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 05:58:48 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610491 In reply to Julie MacKenzie.

I Love Your Enthusiastic Feedback Julie!! It’s Hard Not To Get Excited When You’re So Excited Hahahah

]]> By: Lisa Young https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610490 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 05:57:47 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610490 In reply to A..

Amen. What’s Exhausting About It For You? Just Curious And Wondering If I Could Relate To It With My Ideal Job Match Struggle

]]> By: Lisa Young https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610489 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 05:56:58 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610489 In reply to Dayna.

Interesting, Thanks For Enthusiastically Highlighting That I Missed It During My First Round

]]> By: Lisa Young https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610488 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 05:56:09 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610488 In reply to Kathryn.

Kathryn, What Do You Mean By We Date The Wrong People? What’s Your Theory On That? And Can I Have The Link To That Article Please?

]]> By: Lisa Young https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/bad-dates/#comment-610487 Mon, 13 Jun 2016 05:55:10 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17657#comment-610487 Thank You Steve!! So True. We Have To Get Used The Bad Stuff To Get To The Good Stuff, I’m Going To Apply Your Truthful Philosophy For Work Hunting Too. We Just Gotta Keep Moving And Have Realistic Balanced Expectations..

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