Comments on: How To Get A Guy’s Phone Number In LESS Than 3 Minutes https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/ Have The Love Life You Want Sat, 25 Aug 2018 22:01:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: Lucy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-612390 Sun, 19 Jun 2016 23:59:13 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-612390 I wish I would get approached reading in a bar. I often go to my local bars during the day to do work. I don’t think it has the same amount of intrigue the other way around.

I will search this blog for more tips on how to look more approachable because my problem is that while I’m not always shy, I have trouble being myself around men I don’t know and therefore I don’t look open. You know what it feels like when you’ve been burnt and become cynical? I probably don’t project the carefree energy I want to and come across as too serious. This is probably where I go wrong.

I’m going to try the tip of approaching a guy with a curious question but hopefully sober (usually I need alcohol to get that brave).

]]> By: Cassandra https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-607693 Wed, 01 Jun 2016 03:05:35 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-607693 I agree with Maria, the idea of someone reading in a bar is both highly unusual and attractive. Thank you for the tip! :)

I know we always complain bars/clubs are not the best place to meet men, but when you’re 25-35 yrs old, WHERE ELSE are we supposed to meet them? That seems to be the only place where a younger guy would go out of their way to meet a woman.

Let me give you an example, today I went to the park and I noticed a good-looking man jogging. He made a few laps around the park and I wanted to get his attention, so I made sure I looked at him a few times …the problem is that he seemed to be too “in the zone” to notice me or anyone else in the park.I could have literally wore a cat woman costume and he still wouldn’t have noticed.

This is just one of many examples. It sucks. NO ONE and I mean NO ONE detests the bar scene more than I do but if it’s what I have to do so be it.Or else my only chance is with the creepy old men that aren’t hesitant to approach or the “how many numbers can I collect?” younger creeps.

End rant.

]]> By: Platinum https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-607686 Wed, 01 Jun 2016 02:22:26 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-607686 I have actually done this before with anyone I felt like talking to. It’s funny to see it in an article.

]]> By: Finnish Fairy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-607209 Mon, 30 May 2016 12:13:45 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-607209 First time for everything. I’m glad it paid off. :)

To me, it’s not like “I wonder if this guy is my dream man” anymore. It’s more like “Hi. Let’s exchange our thoughts for a moment and see if we have something common or if I can learn something from you.” mindset. It could be just a moment of connection (it usually is just that) or it could turn into something. You never know what could happen. Regardless what happens it’s pleasant experience anyway (well, most of the time). And those things I’m really after. pleasant experiences either big or small.

]]> By: Kelly https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-606756 Sat, 28 May 2016 14:07:07 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-606756 Great example – thanks so much for the post!

]]> By: Roberta https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-606732 Sat, 28 May 2016 12:10:06 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-606732 What is the book’s name, Steve? I am an italian reader. Wink.
Great article as always.

Roberta

]]> By: Beth https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-606667 Sat, 28 May 2016 03:25:31 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-606667 Yes I like the simplicity of approaching a guy and just saying something out of the blue. I have to ask though how did it go, did you end up meeting her?

]]> By: Kasandra https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-606296 Thu, 26 May 2016 18:45:01 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-606296 This’s very interesting and simple to understand. I seemed to recall someone asking about a book I was reading on the train. It really is a simple technique. Though I find that the more I use techniques, the more I fail. When I don’t use any, it’s easier. Though follow Matt for the encouragement, and your articles are easy to understand.~~ X

]]> By: Maria https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-606293 Thu, 26 May 2016 18:34:46 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-606293 May I ask, Why were you reading in a bar? I would find that incredibly bold and unbelievably attractive. Not only because you’re a reader but because that, at least in my area, isn’t the norm and you did it anyway.
So perhaps something else could be learned from this experience : being unapologetically yourself in any environment can work in your favour.
I don’t know if you realised this but everything you were doing practically radiated little details about your personality,(confidence, intelligence,self-assuredness) and in that setting it made you seem even more of a catch – THAT is what drew her to you, so you were as much a part of this positive outcome as she was!

Good work, Doc ;)

]]> By: Leona https://matthewhussey.com/blog/other/get-guys-phone-number-less-3-minutes/#comment-606247 Thu, 26 May 2016 15:23:54 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=17611#comment-606247 This technique is really practical and approachable. I hope I run into this situation some time soon to try it out!

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