Comments on: Don’t Try To “Find A Relationship” In 2017 – Do THIS Instead…

By: Guity.khoshdel

Guity.khoshdel — Thu, 17 Aug 2017 14:34:14 +0000

I treasure your lessons dearly although lam a 66year old single iranian poetess. And in my cuntry it is not usual to have a boyfriend.and we do not have bars or clubs openly ,so that people can meet new people. And there is no embassy to get
Vis to come to uk to participate in your seminars.forgive me for the long text. And please tell me what to do .thanks.

By: Vicki Clark

Vicki Clark — Sun, 14 May 2017 13:26:18 +0000

Hi, I read your book How to get the guy which I enjoyed but I feel like a lot of the info is for younger women. Iam a 60 year old woman soon to be 61, Iam doing the dating sites with no success. I have met some men but not the ones I want to meet, I had a couple of men ask me out to dinner when I said yes never heard from them again. Just don’t know what to do nowadays.Help

By: Ekaterina

Ekaterina — Sun, 05 Feb 2017 22:13:26 +0000

I am not familiar with your policy if I can post it, I am not trying to advertise anything but wanted to share, for people who have issues with self esteem an amazing audio book by Caroline Myss “Self Esteem – Your fundamental power”. It’s not a book on pshycology but a spiritual practicum with physical affect on the body where self esteem is visioned as an ability of one’s spirit to be a co-creator of ones one life = very much in tune with everything what Matthew and his team shares in his products.

By: Cat

Cat — Wed, 18 Jan 2017 17:22:40 +0000

Hi Stephen & Matthew,

I have a quick question that I really hope you could help me with. There is this guy that I really like, and I think he likes me. But I don’t know if he likes me or my sister. He is rather skittish of physical contact with me ( like a hug or putting his arm around me in a photo ). But with my sister he has no problem hugging her. Am I thinking into this to much or does that mean something?

By: VL

VL — Sun, 15 Jan 2017 13:45:07 +0000

I had to wait a couple of weeks before getting “back out there” because I had family visiting from out of town, so I needed to focus on them for a while. They left on Friday (Jan 13). So, last night I posted what I thought was a very thoughtfully-composed personal ad on Craigslist. I am trying to meet a nice, intelligent, healthy guy who didn’t vote for Trump (in a nutshell). Instead of receiving well-written, thoughtful responses, I’ve been receiving perfunctory one-liner intros (some with photos and some without) – and I suspect they are from middle-aged wingnuts who voted for Trump. I need to look at my ad again and figure out why it’s magnetizing the wrong men. Maybe I’m not giving off the right vibe for progressive men? Would I get more offers from liberal guys if I talked about certain tv shows or personalities they might like? What are the right “buzzwords” that progressive men will respond to? Maybe my ad was too generic? I always feel I’m hopeless at copywriting when this happens. I post and post and repost and I’m not nailing it. It’s frustrating. The last guy I dated was very likable, and he was for Bernie Sanders. The relationship ended because (a) a huge age difference and (b) he’s an atheist and I’m not (at least I think those are the reasons why – he wouldn’t actually tell me the specific reason he broke up with me; he only said it was a “personality thing”). I’ve seen word clouds online for speeches given by Clinton and Sanders, but I wonder if it would be possible to find a word cloud of words and phrases used frequently by their supporters on social media, in non-political contexts. Might help me find the right phrasing for my next ad. I’m going to have to delete this one soon.

By: Katja

Katja — Tue, 10 Jan 2017 21:18:38 +0000

Thank you for this Amazing text. <3

By: L

Tue, 10 Jan 2017 07:15:09 +0000

So tonight my daughter asks if I’ll give her a sibling. I’m single. Her dad is married and is giving her a brother. I say – well, I’d have to get married first. Poor baby. She starts to cry and says she never wants me to get married. Quickly I realized we have the same issue – her dad. When I married him a switch flipped and he immediately became horrendous – angry, controlling, volatile, not warm at all- ever. Probably should have annulled but I didn’t believe in divorce – it was 5 years before I couldn’t take it anymore. When he remarried, I felt sick because I knew what she was going through and I don’t want anyone to have to go through that. The minute you can’t go back, he enjoys making it as awful as possible. He wants to destroy you. No wonder I don’t want to marry and this poor little girl thinks that’s what marriage is. I say – No baby. I know I know I know why you’re crying. That’s why I couldn’t be with your dad. Marriage isn’t supposed to be like that. I would never put you in a place like that. Marriage is fun and no one will yell and everyone will be kind. Now to get myself to believe that …

By: davina

davina — Sun, 08 Jan 2017 20:04:49 +0000

aw thank you for this Stephen. one of my goals is just this and your article has helped make it much less daunting. love making it about the process and treating it as an opportunity to work on myself which feels less pressured, more attainable and in my control. how empowering and motivating to move forward with. thanks again. another beautiful article.

By: die-feenbotschaft.com

die-feenbotschaft.com — Sun, 08 Jan 2017 16:40:14 +0000

Claudia Maria Christoph
claudia-christoph@gmx.de
Hello Stephen,… what you say impress me deeply, this is exactly what I am doing. I had a hard time in my life and now I am sooo happy having break free and being independent now and building my wonderful new life for my little son and me. Yes sometimes I feel lonely working so hard even at the weekend. But your good advice helped me a lot… big thank you kiss….Claudia Maria

By: Freshta

Freshta — Sun, 08 Jan 2017 13:50:53 +0000

Great article once again Steve ..thank you …xoxo