Comments on: Why The Guys You Want, Aren’t Interested

By: Doug

Doug — Sat, 06 Jul 2024 19:05:20 +0000

I never show interest in any woman no matter how attracted I am to her or how many ‘signs’ she ‘gives’ me. All women’s ‘signs of interest’ are by default plausibly deniable – and I will not put myself in a position where being respectful and friendly in a public place could land me in court because someone misinterpreted my saying hello in a public place as harassment. I’m not saying that all – or even most – women do this – but I do not know (how could I?) who the minority are who do. I have many women friends who always say I’m a great guy who gets lots of signs from women and I just need to put myself out there – but here’s the thing: although they say it with the best intentions but they are not the one who would be accused.

By: Doug

Doug — Thu, 16 Feb 2023 03:34:59 +0000

In reply to Topp Hogg.

I’ve never dated either. I will not put myself in a position where being respectful and friendly could land me in court because someone misinterpreted my saying hello in a public place as harassment. I’m not saying that all women do this – but I do not know (how could I?) who the minority are who do. I have women friends who always say I’m “a great guy who gets lots of signs from women” and I “just need to put myself out there” – but here’s the thing: they are not the one who would be accused.

By: Paddy

Paddy — Tue, 24 Nov 2020 14:15:44 +0000

The problem with this kind of advice is that its total shite. It skirts around women’s feelings without telling the harsh realities as to WHY men lose interest/aren’t interested in women. Factors (which women CAN change) include issues like presentation, weight (Yeah, I said it, no I don’t care if anyone’s offended by that) if the lady has serious personality problems such as anger, lack of intelligent conversation, femininity, etc. For gods sake, just say what men actually think of women rather than constantly skirting around the topic!

By: Some bitter woman

Some bitter woman — Mon, 06 Apr 2020 23:41:01 +0000

Honestly, this advice is so ironic. It says don’t take crap, do this, don’t do that… but then says to not obsess over our actions… WTF! It’s articles like this that are EXACTLY why we think we need to be some friggen perfect woman. Forget men. I’m seriously happier just accepting that I’m forever alone. Like how come I have to hide my very human insecurities? How come I can’t treat him as kindly as I would treat anyone I want to impress? I give up. I honestly don’t think men have the capacity to love anyway. I really don’t think they even know what it means to love a woman. It is what it is.

By: Topp Hogg

Topp Hogg — Wed, 13 Nov 2019 19:20:03 +0000

My sons don’t date, because women are seen by them as too much trouble with too little benefit. Because I’ve never had a good relationship with a woman, I approve of their avoidance of women. They came to these beliefs without any prodding from me. They watched, they learned, they decided. Just what all young men should do before deciding whether or not to make the biggest mistake of their life.

By: LIM HAN YANG

LIM HAN YANG — Tue, 21 May 2019 03:48:05 +0000

boring…the issue is the girl’s character.

By: Ducinaija

Ducinaija — Thu, 18 Apr 2019 15:34:14 +0000

This is really inspiring…loving this article like my grandma.

By: Don9ja

Don9ja — Wed, 08 Aug 2018 06:41:54 +0000

Nice article

By: valeria

valeria — Mon, 27 Nov 2017 20:16:33 +0000

totally agree.
Im 25 years old, and I´m in the point of my life taht I want a healthy relation, but the most important its love myself.
Tranks for the advices. Greets from Mexico city.

By: leonard

leonard — Thu, 20 Jul 2017 13:20:07 +0000

In reply to http://www.kneadhelp.co.uk.

Well, women keep saying that the man needs to be a “challenge”, so as NOT to be a doormat and/or a candidate for punishment in the dreaded friendzone. This is a ROUGH ride!